This book is a conglomeration of words which embodies signs, patterns, principles and lessons taught consciously and subconsciously. You will find that history repeats itself, and the generation thereafter will either suffer or benefit from your life choices. Although we know patterns can be positive or negative. This book focuses on the negative and offers scenarios and signs to look for in preparation of building healthy relationships. It will also allow you to look back on past relationships you have experienced and will afford you the opportunity to self-examine in identifying patterns, moving forward in life.