The complexity of relationships in blended families means that they face a unique set of difficulties. This book addresses those difficulties through scripture and in light of the authors experience in order to support step parents in their roles, and strengthen the blended family. Blended, Not Shaken is both a guide for step parents written from a Christian perspective, and a sometimes humorous, sometimes poignant look into the authors own blended family life. It encourages unity and marriage, and gives practical ways to maneuver, the often tumultuous step parenting experience. Reading, lighthearted tales about the author's blended family helps on burden step parents in spite of the daunting realities. They face in day-to-day life. Frank discussions offer hope to the hopeless based on the Word of God. Each chapter ends with questions for discussion to facilitate implementing the knowledge gained in each lesson.