Nature may demand what is natural and or modified and in the process infringe the rights of other entities. Some of these result in general violence which has already recalled what is referred to as gender based violence (GBV). Is violence starting at the base of the family creation or has a different way of creating a community and then a nation? The source of violence continues to escape the attention of those in leadership, only pronouncements with no core strategy to arrest the source. If marriage is not addressed and the issues in it not attended to, isn't likely that GBV will be captured and destroyed. Are those in marriage or still thinking and planning marriage aware of the possibilities and strategies to make marriage work and last? Marriage is a process that needs observation and monitoring to enrich it to achieve the end times as declared in the marriage vows. Marriage is controlled by love not so much with culture and tradition of the people. Some primary and secondary indicators in the marriage project may influence the success or failure of marriage using the fishbone procedure. One can imagine dancing on an unprepared, rough, dry, wet, etc. podium.