Nothing replaces the experience. However, when you rush to judge the attitudes of others according to your own standards, you believe that you are in possession of the truth. How delusional! How can you know what is happening inside others? How can you evaluate the emotions you have never felt? How can you know what goes beyond appearances? How can you find out the limits of your resistance and some temptations, if you have never been tempted? Vanity makes us believe that you know the best solution for the problems of others. Life's wisdom tries to show the relativism of your judgment, working your intelligence in many ways, but if you resist, attached to your own concepts, a situation like the one you criticized appears in your life, so that, FEELING IN YOUR SKIN, you can understand this relativism and learn to respect the privacy of others.