.By nature, most women have a desire to nurture. The problem is that they spend too much time rescuing and uplifting the wrong people. This devotion has often caused psychological, physical, and verbal abuse. Many have experienced rejection, ridicule, embarrassment, and deflated self-esteem and self-worth from unappreciative individuals. The author of this book suggests to women that it is time to spend more time and energy on nurturing themselves. This will result in women becoming more educated, informed, interesting, impressive, attractive, politically active, admired, confident, self-assured, and desirable. This book is an excellent guide for the process. It is never too late for women to turn their ships around. It can be done. The author offers blessing to all who make the journey.