“Where does ‘highly happy’ come from—and can we have some too?!”   Have you ever looked at a blissfully married couple and thought, I wish I could know their secret ? Now you can. After years of investigative research, Shaunti reveals twelve powerful habits that the happiest marriages have in common.   Best news of all? Anyone can learn the secrets of a highly happy marriage!   In The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Shaunti Feldhahn shares her findings about little, very unexpected, often overlooked actions that make a huge difference. You’re about to discover that highly happy couples: • Go to bed mad • Keep score (just not in the way you think) • Boss their feelings around • Have factual fantasies • Get in over their heads • Don’t tell it like it is • Don’t look to marriage to make them happy…   Packed with eye-opening research and practical helps, this book delivers relationship insights that will take your marriage from “just fine” to “just the marriage we’ve always wanted.”